Join us on an exploratory journey full of playfulness, intimacy and sexuality. Together we will create a brave(r) space for an unforgettable night full of joy, pleasure and community.
We will warm up with a playful speed date game to connect and unleash our fantasies. The night will be guided by international DJ’s and performances. We will have merchendize, so bring cash to silver our price. Curious about the night? Get your tickets, we have sold 50% of the tickets.
Sexual Liberation Play Party is about decolonizing our mind and body and it’s about dismantling stigmas, taboos and shame around body and sexuality. Sexual liberation is a political act of resistance and resilience, where we abolish the white binary cis heternormative patriarchal colonial and capitalist system.
Come and join us in resistance for liberation, through intimacy, sexuality and sensuality.
⏱️ Date: Saturday 12 July
🫂 Speeddate : 21:00 – 22:00 o’clock
🎉 Party: 22:00 – 04:00 o’clock
📍Location: Akhnaton, Amsterdam
✊🏼 BIPOC Centered and No cis men policy
Sponsored by Gemeente Amsterdam, Cultuurfonds & NewSide
Have you dreamed of a place to belong, with genuine connection & community? Fite Qlub is the place to be. Come and join our team of volunteers to help run the Play Party.
Fite Qlub is a volunteer based organization, with a dedicated team of volunteers. We strongly believe in collective responsibility, which means: taking care of each other, supporting each other and showing up for each other. Together we will form a community of care and resilience.
In exchange, we offer a kind, genuine, and welcoming community filled with joy and connection. Even better, you can join the Play Party for free inclusive drinks!
Our awareness team is an essential part of the Festival & Play Party. Have you always wanted to feel like you belong and play an important role for the community? Then this is the place to be!
What does it mean to be part of an awareness team?
You and your buddy make sure that participants feel safe and welcomed in the space. We make sure that nobody feels alone in the space. The awareness team is the support system of the events. Participants can approach you, when they need assistance.
We need an awareness team for the Festival and the Play Party.
Feeling nervous or unsure about what to expect? Is this your first play party or are you coming alone? Don’t worry, there is a first time for everything. Fite Qlub Play Party is designed for people who want to enter a sexually liberated space, where you feel free, excited, connected and can truly embrace yourself.
Our buddy system, led by a coordinator, will guide you through the night. We want you to make connections, feel welcome, and included. That’s why our buddies are here to support. Join our buddy chat-group via link!
What to expect at the Play Party?
Sweet, sexy and gentle vibes.
Cute community, collective responsibility.
Nothing is mandatory, you decide your own journey.
Consent rules apply during the whole night!
Awareness team, if you need them.
Buddy system for support.
ACCESSIBILITY
The main floor features a large dance area with top DJs and perforances. Feel free to dance and enjoy yourself! On this floor we have designed a special darkroom to accomodate individuals with diverse mobility needs.
If you prefer a quieter environment or find the main floor too loud or bright or too dark, head to the second floor. It has sofas, chairs, and carpets for relaxing and socializing, and playfulness!
The third floor has dark rooms for exploration and play. We’ll provide lube, gloves, and condoms to ensure your safety. The space is dimly lit with soft music.
TOILETS
The main floor and the toilet on the main floor are wheelchair accessible. Please note that additional time and assistance may be required to use the toilet with a wheelchair. The toilets on all floors are gender-inclusive.
The toilets on other floors are accessible by stairs only. If you need any assistance, our Fite QLub crew will be available to help.
We very much welcome your suggestions for how we can make our event more inclusive. Email us to info@fiteqlub.com
FITE QLUB RULES
We believe in collective responsibility which means; that we take care of the space and the people around us. We share the space collectively. We step in or out whenever is necessary. We make sure that everyone is feeling save and welcomed in the space.
- Zero tolerance for discrimination. This includes any form of -ism & phobias.
- Consent is key–only yes means yes. Maybe does not mean yes.
- Respect people’s gender. Do not assume one’s gender. Ask for pronouns.
- Safe Sex– Use Condoms & Gloves. Better safe than sorry!
- Drink/Use Drugs Responsibly. People who overuse alcohol/drugs will be removed
- No photos or videos. We have our own photographer & only in designated areas.
- BIPOC centered brave space. White people: mind the space you take.
- No cis men policy. Brave space for marginalized queer & trans folx.
- Collective responsibility. Of the space and participants.
- Community led event. Designed for and by the queer & trans community
FAQs
- What is the vibe?
The Play Parties are wholesome. Together we form a warm, sensual, cozy and communal atmosphere, so everyone can be their authentic self. This gives a feeling of belonging, feeling of a safe(r) space, consensually kinky, sexy, unique and liberated. Nothing is mandatory, you decide your own journey!
- I’d like to come for the event but I’m nervous or alone.
We got you! You’re allowed to feel nervous, and you’re always welcome. We have a buddy system, so that we can introduce you to other people feeling the same way. Our events are open for beginners and non-beginners (it’s not a competition). There’s a first time for everything!
- What can I expect from the event?
We have different areas for different activities. We have a dance area, a lounge area, a play area and darkrooms. The evening will begin with a speed date (if you want to participate, you can buy a ticket) then move on to dancing with some amazing international DJs, incredible performances, and lots of fun and opportunity to play!!
We have dirty minds but hygienically clean spaces and materials!!
- What can I expect from the speeddate?
To get to know people, meet like-minded people (romantic or not), and build community. You can be single or taken, whatever floats your boat!
- Is it mandatory to do things?
No! We want you to feel comfortable and have a great time, whatever that means for you. We discuss our consent rules during the night, a buddy system if you feel awkward and want some company, and an awareness team throughout the night if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe at any point!
- Is there a dress code? Can I change when I’m there?
You’re allowed to dress however you like. We encourage you to dress in a way that makes you feel sexy, kinky, hot, and comfortable. And yes, there are clean toilets and opportunity to change.
- Can I bring my partner(s)
Absolutely! Provided they pay for their tickets too 😉
- Can I bring toys?
Yes! We have impact toys but you’re welcome to bring your own